My mom was diagnosed to have cancer, it came as a real shock as she took good care of her health, very careful with food, no alcoho, nothing abnormal. No heavy dinner, very little meat.

 

The diagnosis was thorough and there is only one option is to have the offended area surgically remove.

 

The surgory was successful and the relief to the family members and myself, 

 

However, there is another area that the cancer cells had spreaded and can not be surgically removed as it would be life threatening.

 

There is no other choice but to go for Chemo therapy, which is non invasive but it is taxing on the patient. There is other side effect too. And the cost of the treatment come as a shock. It is in the thousand per treatment, and she needed a course of few treatment.

 

The next thing is to look for financial resource to cover the treatment and the drugs that are required, and there are a lot of follow up treatment, and of course medical fees needed.

 

Do I need help, you bet.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Times are BAD

There is nothing to be sad

Cherish what you have - kids, family and friends

There are always new beginnings, never an end

 

Times are BAD

Get even, do not get mad

You just have to embrace the change

With nothing to lose, and everything to gain

 

Times are BAD

The past you had, the future a fad

Treasure today, it's a gift, a dividend

That's why it is called the present

 

Times are BAD

Still there are sure things to be had

After the Rat, surely comes the Ox

Why worry how you will fare, run with the box

 

Times are BAD

Enough with the Rat

This Chinese New Year of the Niu

Rejoice, out with the old, welcome the new.

 

Copy from somewhere:

提前祝福:

亲愛的朋友:

佳節將至為送上我的餅

第1餅:圓月餅,代表一顆圓圓的,寄託了一份圓圓的,希望能圓一個圓圓的。

第2餅:千層餅,第一層第二層第三層中間夾層甜蜜!你喜歡!

第3餅:工餅,用浪漫皮;溫馨餡;幸福蛋黃;懂得味的人不需要多

第4餅:法餅,成份:真心快樂;保質期:一生;營養:溫馨幸福真情;製造:想念你的人。

第5餅:團圓餅,平安的餡,

~~明月,一閃一閃,掛天邊;

~~~思念,一絲一絲,連成線;

~~回憶,一幕一幕,在眼前;

~~~但願,一年一年,人圓全。

啊~~ ,WHO 偷吃了的餅？

好了,圓了,家圓了,肚子圓了最好錢包也圓了^^"

佳節快樂闔家團圓美滿!!!

 

你好吗? 好久没有联系了, 你的电话 换了.电邮也可能换了.

见不到你的人, 听不到你的声音,闻不到你得香水味, 感觉不到你的心跳,你的气息.

有点安慰, 有点失落, 有点难过.

安慰, 因为你已经毕业了,找到工.

失落, 因为要通过别人才知道你的消息,

难过,因为失去了知己.

如果还是这样, 当以后在街上遇到会不会尴尬 ?

你可能拉了男朋友的手, 遇到一个知道你的以前的另一个男人,你会假装不认识, 没看到吗?

It was tuesday morning, it was raining, the expressway is jammed with heavy traffic, the electronic board highlighted there was a traffic accident in front.

 

The speed slow to crawling speed, estimated 5 km/hr when there is a chance to move forward.

 

As my car inched forward, stopping , I felt there is a slight bump , I went down to look, the car behind bump into my car, probably at speed of 5 km/hr.

 

I quickly checked and found no dent on the car bumper,only slight scratches, the door can open, the support beam is ok, the back light is ok.

 

I let him go since it was rainning heavily and the jam was really heavy.

 

I don't care much about my car outlook anymore, since the day my car was scratched by this uncle trying to help a friend moved house, with my then new car.

 

The scratch is there, it is on the surface, superficial, it is only skin deep, it is trivial compared with the hurt inside.

 

It is gone, but the heart is there, but you won't know, or you refuse to know.

 

All these years, when things turn bad, you only hide, change email addresse, moving house, change Handphone no, you are running away from problem instead of face up to it, you can run, you are running from people who help you, you ignore them as if they are complete stranger, since all these people have no more value to you,  you can hide, you pretend you did not see your friend, with the internet age, boundary seems nearer, one day it is going to catch up with you and come and bite you where it hurt most.